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Are You Losing Yourself In Your Relationship?

Being with people we love for a long period often results to both getting some of each other’s characteristics. It could even go to the extent that we will have similar likes and dislikes. This could explain why some people start to love some shows that they used to snob. If you love your partner, you tend to try to like what he or she likes and you later find out that what they like is also appealing to you. People we love also eventually start liking what we like.

However, even if you were together for a long time, you still need to keep your own identity. Failure to do this will later make you forget who you are. If you feel you are losing yourself, read on.

Check out these signs to learn more if you are losing yourself in your relationship.

You always say “we” instead of “me.” Always talking about “we” or your plans together and not talking about “me” or “I” means you forgot about your own achievements and plans.

There were things you cannot tolerate before the relationship that you are tolerating now. Even if we sometimes do not admit it, we do have morals. Did you have strong morals before you went into your relationship? Is your partner influencing you to do otherwise? Have you changed some of your healthy practices to unhealthy ones because of him?

More serious in a relationship is when there is abuse and it should never be taken lightly. Don’t cover up for your partner is he is abusing you.

Your concerns have become the least important. Did you have to leave your things behind to stay in his place? You have the right to keep the things you really love. Some think of this as nothing. But it is indeed a sign of something. If you cannot agree on what things to keep in terms of material possessions, you might not agree later on other issues.

You always give in. At times many couples have difficulty getting into an agreement about something but in the end one of them wins. Do you feel you have to agree with your partner most of the time? For all you know you are losing yourself already.

You realize that you want time to be alone. From time to time, we also need to focus on ourselves. Have your alone times seem to have gone? Another sign of losing yourself is when all your time is spent on your partner. A sign of jealousy and possessiveness is not giving some time and space to your partner. You do not have to attend all corporate functions for your partner if you are not comfortable.

If after this you realized that you are losing yourself, talk to your partner to fix issues and if it does not work, seek help. Learn more about this issue, check out more sites.